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  • Narendra Nayak 10:08 PM on January 22, 2012 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: censorship, fatwa, MF Hussain, Salman Rushdie, Vivekananda   

    Time to break the silence 

    Protest against Pakistan blasphemy lawAs we progress in material terms and with the rise of technology one would expect the society to become more tolerant, liberated and open to all points of view however much they differ from what we hold. But, we see that the opposite is happening. The success of a democracy is measured by the extent of freedom of expression of the citizens and the protection given to exercise this right. The right to dissent and that to blasphemy are fundamental human rights.

     

    But what is happening today in our country as well as some other parts of the world runs quite contradictory to this. The rising intolerance to the contradictory point of view is now becoming a great danger to democracy and the freedom of expression of the individual. This could be anything from preventing a marriage between two consenting adults to preventing some one from speaking his point of view to trying to restrict the freedom of the press. This has gone to extent of attempts at curbing the rights of individuals to speak out their minds on the so called ‘social web sites’, that too by the judiciary which is supposed to uphold the fundamental rights of the citizen. We in Karnataka have been increasingly subjected to such attacks by all sorts of outfits belonging to various religious and political denominations. The same has been now observed at the national level. While these outfits tend to support individuals who have points of view inconvenient to those which have a conflicting interest, when it come to their own their attitude becomes totally different. For example the saffron outfits which prima facie support Salman Rushdie’s freedom of expression have attacked journalists for writing things about some historical individuals who they feel are their exclusive property though they lived long before these came into existence! Again, we can see the defenders of freedom of expression belonging to some religions who act like supporters of democratic rights in countries where they are in minority while in those in which they are in majority have been converted to Islamic republics where their primitive tribal laws hold sway! Some of them even claim that Islamic rights are superior to human rights as proposed by the United nations organisation!

    The rise of this intolerance has reached such depths that we have had ministers commenting on how what women wear invites rape! In fact, this is an indirect support for those who can say they were provoked into rape by the way women dress! This could be also an indirect way of strengthening the gender stereotypes of the religious beliefs in which women are looked upon as chattels. In fact this has been happening in some places where there are claims of ‘love jihad’ as if women are some commodities who can be easily hoodwinked or traded. This attitude is particularly reflected when a marriage takes place. Instead of looking at that as a decision of two individuals to live together, it is viewed as a reflection on the status of castes and religious beliefs of the families of these individuals.Many times, even murders have taken place to preserve the ‘family honour’! The revulsion is more in the case of interreligious marriages and those which occur between those of a ‘touchable’ and untouchable caste! Having assisted hundreds of such youngsters in love to get married, I have noticed the maximum opposition when one of them is a dalit! It does not matter whether it the male or the female! the very thought of a caste Hindu marrying a dalit is anathema to the families of the ‘upper caste’ partner of the marriage.

    Free speech and religious rights

    Image credit: Bala Bhaskar

    The funniest part of this intolerant society is their selective support to the victims of intolerance of their perceived enemies. the saffron groups for example have condemned the attack on Salman Rushdie by the Muslims. The most recent one in this has been the protest against Rushdie attending the Jaipur literature festival and speaking there. This has been condemned by some of the saffron gangs as a infringement of right to freedom of expression. All this while one of the victims of their attack, the artist Hussain was protected by islamists! It is but natural that ones enemy’s victim is a friend to be supported! This intolerance has now been extended to literature too.

    The most recent protest in this respect has been about a book called Gandhi Banda which has been a prescribed non-detailed one for the degree classes of the Mangalore University. While this has been in the syllabus for quite some time, it is only very recently fund to be offensive to one particular community- the gold smiths! Though the person referred to is a carpenter called as Achari in Tulu the local language, the community of goldsmiths who are also called Achari had threatened to go on protest. However, nothing much actually materialised out of this threat! However, the moving forces behind this so called protest are actually the Shivalli brahmins about whom is this work of fiction! Though based on a true story of a brahmin widow marrying a Muslim, The book depicted the cruelty to widows and a young woman rebelling against it in the back ground of the freedom struggle in the district. Though the attempts to get it removed from the prescribed list of text books has not succeeded so far, we do not know when it will be proscribed.

    The reaction to a write up in a popular Kannada daily, the Prajavani by a student organisation is another example of this hooliganism. The write up pointed out that Swami Vivekananda whose 150th birth anniversary is being celebrated all over the country as a mortal with all his shortcomings. He was described as a dull student, his history in service that of being removed from his post for not being very good in teaching etc were mentioned and the author took pains to explain that despite all these he managed to build up a strong movement, revived the reformist streak in the Hindu society and emphasised on the eradication of many social evils including the caste system. he was also portrayed as a non vegetarian with a fondness for cooking good food and also suffering from many ailments. This had perhaps punctured the egos of certain elements who had imagined him to be of a strong muscular build and a vegetarian too. More than anything it must have been an attempt to hog the lime light. While the choice of some words to describe him could be called uncomplementary though not defamatory the reaction was an act of total intolerance to anything that does not conform to the what the protesters thought was right. Even a protest could be justified as it is everyone’s democratic right to protest but it cannot be done by violence and destruction of property!

    The level of this expression of intolerance has been fine tuned to such an extent that they are conflicts even among the upper castes themselves about their degrees of purity! For example GSBs(Gowd Saraswath Brahmins) have been physically removed from the rows of Shivalli Brahmins who fancy themselves as those with a higher degree of ‘purity’. It has come to the extent of even boycott of a swami from one of their own maths for having committed the ‘sin’ of crossing the seas which climaxed into high drama with one of seers going on a fast to protest this injustice to him and the most senior one of them going on a counter fast!

    Culminating this series of localised acts of intolerance come the attempts at the national level to curb all dissent and freedom of expression. Under the guise that certain statements or pictures may offend the ‘religious sentiments’ of particular communities the central govt. is thinking of enacting legislation to ‘filter out’ what is called as ‘objectionable content’ from the internet. While it is powerless to act against against individuals and organisations which incite communal sentiments and even exhort the listeners to commit even murders, the action is being contemplated against those peacefully express their views of the net! The culture if it can be called as so of intolerance is on the rise in our society. It is coming to such levels that the freedom of expression is being curtailed and human rights are being trampled upon. matters have come to such a head that some citizens have become authorities by themselves and hold their self made ‘constitutions’ to be superior to that applicable to all other citizens. If the superiority of the constitution of this country is not asserted by those whose responsibility it is to do so then this country has a very bleak future. The silent majority as to be expected from them are keeping up their tradition of being silent while the vocal microscopic minority professing their own laws have the ears and eyes of the media and that of the nation. Unless we the silent majority break our silence and make ourselves heard we can be sure that a time will come when we are going to be silenced for ever and it will be too late to repent.

    Bearing the risk of repetition I once again quote the great parliamentarian Edmund Burke- all it takes for the dark forces of evil to take over this world is enough number of good people who want to do nothing. Let us stop being those good people who want to do nothing.

    Edmund Burke quote

     
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  • Narendra Nayak 8:27 AM on May 2, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Doing Little Things For The Children Of A Lesser God! 

    The previous write up about the home for HIV positive children tugged the heart strings of many, many people. We have received donations from people from all over the world. When A.S.Vijetha, an engineer with ANZ Operations and Technology read about it, she decided to spend her whole vacation with these children.

    She came to Mangalore on the 27th of April, and the first thing she did was to go to the house where these children were lodged, bringing along sweets, samosas and many other things needed for them. Dr.Yashwanth Nayak, a general practitioner, was so moved by their story that he sponsored some vessels for them. Dolly Koshy, one of the coordinators of our Nirmukta group in Bangalore, was so moved that she donated an amount to be spent on them. Vibhor  Nayak , an oil technologist, donated a generous amount from his first salary to the kids.

    Vijetha fitting shoes on the young ones.

    When the staff of the home told Vijetha that some of the children needed footwear, she wanted to buy the same for all of them because she did not want to discriminate between them. So, we contacted a local reputed footwear shop. The children were brought to the shop in the vehicle of the home, where we served them with hot fried stuff fresh from the kadai. They were delighted to wear the new footwear and almost every one of the kids packed their old footwear into the bag provided and went back to the home wearing the new ones! The owner of the shop Mr. Alwyn Rosario was so much moved that the generous discount that he offered made it look as if the shoes were being given away for free. But the amount cannot be mentioned as he forbade us from doing so. The children went back happily to their home.

    The CARDTS staff and Vijetha with Mr. Alwyn Rosario

    A and B are engaged to be married in June/July (date not yet fixed yet). A sends an amount as present to B. B sees that the children of a lesser god need a refrigerator, as the existing one is in bad shape.

    B decides to present a refrigerator using the amount. C is a repairer who has quite a few good refrigerators in his stock. He decides to give  them one for the acquisition price, with free delivery to the premises. End of the story.

    The picture is that of the refrigerator, as the concerned people do not want any publicity- they just wish to motivate others into doing something for these little ones.

    The author, Professor Narendra Nayak is the president of the Federation of Indian Rationalist Associations. His wife Asha Nayak is the president of the Dakshina Kannada Child Welfare CommitteeFor donation inquiries please send prof. Nayak an email at narenyen (at) gmail (dot) com.

     
  • Narendra Nayak 7:47 AM on April 7, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Children Of A Lesser God! 

    I should say I am pretty hard-boiled, having worked for many years in the field of clinical biochemistry, that too for the first years as a technical assistant collecting blood specimens from a variety of patients, which has inured me to the hardships of disease. But, what I experienced on the 3rd of April wrenched my gut! My friends Ajit and Raja  who are conneced with a leading restaurant wanted to do something for children who were really deserving. My wife Asha who is the President of the Child Welfare Committee, and in charge of many of such childrens facilities, suggested feeding children who were in a special home for the HIV positive. We all agreed to that. She also suggested that it was not just giving them something that was important but also making them feel that they were loved. So, on the day of providing them food we also decided to visit them and see for ourselves.

    There are two such shelters for the HIV positive children under her supervision- one for the boys and the other for girls. The smaller ones are accommodated along with the girls who also take care of them. There were 24 in the girls home and 36 in the boys. It was a really moving experience for the three of us who were visiting for the first time. The children were like all of their age group, affectionate, playful and naughty. They were very thankful that someone was giving them good food to eat. On the day we visite them their school vacations were to start. A little one piped up that her maternal uncle was coming to take her home, another one said that her grandmother would come, and so  did a third one! Some of those who had no one to take them put up a brave face and conveyed that they were going to stay there, as though it was their considered decision and not thrust upon them! The President of the CWC, my wife Asha, became quite stern. She ordered the person in charge to make sure that if anyone were to take a kid home, they would have to submit an application, appear personally before her and bring them back a week before the school reopens. They had also to see that their medication was properly administered.

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    • Ajita Kamal 7:54 AM on April 7, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      This article was very hard to get through (even when editing it) without breaking down in anger and sorrow at the plight of these children. After all, it speaks to our collective failures as a society that these children lose their sense of worth, dignity and self-respect, along with the right to a healthy life that the disease has robbed them of. Thank you prof. Nayak for your humanistic work.

      “When we wanted to photograph them with the donors of that day’s meals, we had to ask them to turn their backs as their privacy has to be maintained. They were quite sad that they were being asked to do that! However, soon after I made them pose together and photographed them with their smiling faces which I would have loved to show but cannot due to the above reason.”

      This had me in tears.

      • narendra 5:38 AM on April 8, 2011 Permalink | Reply

        Will send you the photo by mail for your use only. I have made A4 size prints which I am going to take to them today along with some things to eat. We will also look to what is needed there and try to give them that. Offers are coming from all over the world from people who have read this. It was also on mangaloretoday.com and daijiworld.com

    • hari 8:31 AM on April 7, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      You are a good man Mr Nayak. A true inspiration to me.

    • narendra 4:26 PM on April 9, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      There have been good response to the writeup about the HIV positive children on these web sites. I ahve already started going to his place and trying to give them things that they need. Many peop0le have responded to this and have asked for information about sending funds. This is as follows:
      for foreign exchange contributions they can be sent to:
      CARDTS
      Syndicate Bank Ganganagar bvranch, Bangalore ac no. 04582010063434 IFC code synb 0000458
      from India to:
      CARDTS
      Syndicate Bank Banswadi Branch account no 04582010100267 IFC code synb0000459

      Those from Mangalore and have friends/ relatives could kindly contact the no of CARDTS 9535675242 and can ask for what is needed at that point of time and arrange for it.
      If any one wants me to do anything specific for them say like arranging a days food or something can send the amount to my Narendra Nayak HUF account no.1169101031973 at Cabara Bank, car street branch, IFSC code CNRB 0001169.However, that should be last resort.

  • Narendra Nayak 6:57 AM on December 7, 2010 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: , atheist, marriage   

    An Indian Atheist’s Marriage 

    AN ATHEIST WAS ASKED A question in Bihar – “do you believe in the power of mantras?” He said no. The questioner continued- “In that case why were mantras chanted at your marriage?” The atheist countered- “Who told you that mantras were chanted during my marriage?” The questioner was surprised, he asked if they were not. The atheist said no, not at all. This question proved that the person who queried had absolutely no knowledge of the world and believed that no marriage could be performed without the chanting of mantras! Since the atheist had a Hindu sounding name or even if he were to belong to some other religion, the questioner believed that some marriage related rituals will be performed and would involve some incantation to a deity!

    That shook the atheist’s memory and took him back to the days thirty years ago when he was trying to get married. Being too busy earning a living and paying back the loans taken to educate himself, he had no time for any romance or even to mingle with the opposite gender. He had a routine starting at 7am and ending at 9pm. His friends, relatives and colleagues laughed at him when he indicated that he would get married to only some one who would be ready for a marriage without any religious ceremony, matching of horoscopes or any other superstitious practice. They told him that he would remain a bachelor for life! So, he inserted an ad in the newspaper which had the largest circulation- though it had no editorial! The ad ran as follows:

    ‘A rationalist by conviction born in a family of XYZ community, aged 28 years, post graduate drawing a four figure salary, desires a matrimonial relationship with a like minded partner with a simple marriage with no religious ceremony or superstitious rituals of any sort.’

    He had given a post box number and not made any mention of the institution where he was employed or other details so that it could not be traced back to him! But, a good number of his friends called him and told him that they had noticed his ad! When queried they said who else could be that but you ? One of his friends told him- have it repeated each year so that you could save money on typesetting. The only change would be to add a year to the age, he said! He also joked that he (an atheist) will probably have had to issue such an ad for half century or so before finding a suitable bride!

    There were a good number of replies none which could be said to be suitable for him. In fact there were a good number of gold diggers who had read in between the lines and had also decided that the superstition free included free of dowry and other expenses connected with the marriage. There were some who said that there was something wrong with the man for offering to get married without any dowry! Many of his friends who knew that he was a very eligible match tried to persuade him to relax his terms and conditions so that they could get him married off to someone of their choice. But, the atheist was adamant- he said no; I want to live life on my own terms without any compromises whatsoever. In fact the atheist was quite proud of his life in which he had not taken an active part in any religious ritual. None of the usual ceremonies had been performed on him and by the time he was to be initiated into Brahminism by a thread ceremony he had become an atheist and refused the ceremony.

    So, his quest went on until one day when a friend of his, a pathologist, came up with a proposal. He told him that there was a proposal of a girl with a post graduate degree in psychiatric social work, a very intelligent and good looking girl who could be a good match for him. The atheist replied that he would take his decision after meeting the girl and that would be subject to the condition that she and/or her parents would be agreeable to these conditions that he had laid down about the superstitious rituals etc. It turned out that they were agreeable and hence the meeting between them was arranged. To cut the long story short, they decided to get married after discussing various issues. It turned out that they had a lot in common and hence could get along with each other.

    So, they submitted an application under the Special Marriages Act at the registrar’s office and decided to have the marriage exactly 30 days after the date of submission. The registrar of marriages was brought to the residence of the bride at Rahukalam.Soon after his arrival he mentioned in his register that it was a registration of marriage under the Hindu Marriage Act. The atheist objected; he said- sorry, I want registration of marriage under Special Marriages Act. The registrar replied- what is your problem? Both of you are Hindus. The atheist replied- no I am not. Then came the registration procedure- the registrar said hold up your right hand and say that I accept so and so as my legally wedded wife. The bridegroom said no. The registrar was surprised and queried what the matter is. The bridegroom said I am an atheist and am not going to swear by God. The registrar said OK and asked him to just hold up his right hand and say that he accepted so and so as his wife. So, that was the whole of the marriage with no ceremony, no garland, no mantras and no tali or any religious symbolism. The same evening they had a small reception for their close friends, relatives and colleagues and there ended the matter of conducting a marriage without any rituals, ceremonies or superstitions!

    Why should one be free from these things?

    One can see that the so called hor(ror)scopes are an excuse for the business transactions called marriages that go on in the community. These also involve huge wastages in terms of money and other resources. The economically backward sections have to raise loans to perform the obligations that go in the name of marriage rituals. It is always the priestly class that benefits in the name of such things. What should have been a social sacrament has become a commercial enterprise. The atheist wanted to express his protest against these things and hence decided that he could show that such a thing could be done. He also wanted to demonstrate that marriages do not need any religious sanction and wanted others to learn from that. One of the funniest incidents was that on the very next day of the marriage when the newly wedded couple were in the natal home of the bride, the family priest turned up ostensibly to ‘see’ the new bride groom but actually to collect the fee denied to him because of the non religious marriage! He calls the bridegroom to one side and asked him in a low voice, my dear man do you know any good match for my daughter, even if it is some one like you, it is all right!

    To what extent he succeeded is to be seen. But, his two brothers followed his footsteps with simple, non religious marriages. Many years later when the organisation he headed was celebrating its silver jubilee he lectured on how the leaders of the movement should lead a life free of any superstitious practices. In a few days there was an attack on him stating that he was a hypocrite who was preaching others but himself following the very same superstitious practices he was asking others to give up. It was specifically mentioned that his marriage to ABC would have been surely with all religious rituals! What right has such a person to ask others to give up the things which the so called atheist himself followed?-was the most important question raised. The atheist replied by getting published a copy of his marriage certificate which shut the mouth of the critics and there has been no such attack since that incident. This emphasizes the importance of the leaders of the movement to practice what they ask others to follow.

    The couple has helped quite a lot of younger people to get married against the wishes of their parents/relatives and sometimes the society as a whole. But, they are still waiting for the social revolution to come wherein young people desirous of forming lasting bonds make their own decisions, and treat the whole matter as a social celebration and not as a religious matter with superstitious practices and rituals. For those who have been not able to guess who the atheist mentioned here is, the photograph shows yours truly thirty years ago signing the register in the presence of the Registrar of Marriages of Mangalore City.

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    Professor Narendra Nayak is the president of the Federation of Indian Rationalist Associations, and he writes about interesting events that he comes across on his rationalist tours of India.

    Join us at our forums for an in-depth discussion on Atheists and dating/marriage.

    Article originally published on Mangalore Today, and edited for Indian Atheists by Aditya Manthramurthy and Ajita Kamal.
     
    5 Comments
    • Astrokid 7:27 AM on December 7, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      sigh! I wish I had the brains of this mysterious atheist :-) Thankfully I have learnt now.

      • Nikhil Pawar 1:06 AM on December 22, 2010 Permalink | Reply

        Wow… Loved the story. Didnt know that bit about Special Marriages Act. Will keep that in mind for the future. thanks.

    • Anuj Menon 11:11 PM on May 1, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Such a sweet story and only 2 comments? *sigh*

    • Narendra 12:37 PM on May 2, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      @ Anuj- have been married now for 32 years. The same has been published on a number of web sites and also in print. It was just narrated to show people that is possible for us to hold on to our principles in life. Many of us are just theoretical armchair atheists not daring to live a life according our convictions. I have lived a life without compromising on them and wanted to show that to the younger generation.

  • Narendra Nayak 3:56 PM on September 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply  

    The Rise of Intolerance 

    Originally posted on Nirmukta.

    Have a look at the following headlines:

    • KHAP panchayats in North India sentence and execute young married couples to death
    • In Kerala, a lecturer’s hand is chopped off for asking questions from a chapter from a book written decades back, followed by a fatwa.
    • In Karnataka, a minister threatens to remove the tongues of those who dare to speak against the Chief minister.
    • In the legislative assembly of Karnataka, a minister challenges the leader of the opposition to come to Bellary and repeat what he has said there – the leader of the opposition takes it up, goes to Bellary and does it! (More …)
     
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    • Ajita Kamal 4:09 PM on September 13, 2010 Permalink | Reply

      Very timely article, prof Nayak. The recent spate of incidents are definitely an indication that the communal elements are getting more aggressive.

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